The Book of Teenager

Best part of your life? Yeah you guessed it right. It's your teenage! At this point of life you feel like you have grown up and wants to live your life by your own self. This is the time when you suffer from many physical and mental changes. You become dramatic, irrational and screams literally for no reason. You're fond of doing stupid things and you demand for both greater freedom and lots of love and care. At this age your opinions and your parents' opinions might not be the same and this leads to frequent arguements. At this age you meet a lot of people, some will last forever and some will leave you at tough times. It totally depends on you what you choose. Parents should understand that no matter how tall their son has sprouted or how grown-up their daughter dresses, they are still in a developmental period that will affect the rest of their life. During this age you might be moody like Squidward, a bit dumb like Patrick and sometimes selfish like Mr. Krabs, but you'll have your parents be there for you just like Spongebob. A teenager is just like a cat who only comes out to eat and hisses if you try to pet it.

At this age you want to spend more time in mixed gender groups which might eventually end up in romantic relationships. These days, some teenage relationships may only last for a few weeks or months but some of them might be very serious resulting into a happy married life ahead. Some teenagers get into relationships just to kill their boring time. They don't have any feelings for their partners. This usually leads to heartbreak. Suffering from heartbreak is like walking on a barbed way barefooted. This really affect our physical and mental health. Sometimes, the people we like don't like us back and it's painful, but there's nothing we can do about it. It hurts when someone doesn't feel the same about you like you feel about them. 

I think one of the saddest things about failed relationships is realising y'all could have made it work, if they truly cared about you like you cared, they would have fought for you but they didn't and sadly that only means that you loved them more than they loved you. The most frustrating thing ever is when you are putting in effort and you get none in return. Effort is attractive. In order to be in a healthy relationship you have to talk about that bother you even if you agree or disagree. After a heartbreak, some teenagers may find it very difficult to move on. The main reason why people have a hard time moving on is because deep down you want the person you fell in love with to return and things go back to how they started. It's so hard to accept when people change, or turn out to be the opposite of what we thought they were.   

Never beg people to stay against their will. Sometimes the gift of goodbye opens another door for you. Love isn't about grand gestures or moon and the stars, it's just the dumb luck. And sometimes you meet someone who feels the same way but sometimes you're unlucky but one day you're gonna find someone who'll appreciate you for who you are. There are 7 billion people on the planet and someone will climb up the moon for you.

But it's okay to cry and okay to be sad. It's okay to miss them and okay to wish you did something different. But never blame yourself for how things turned out. Never tell yourself you can't do better and never tell yourself this is the end of the road. It's okay to fall but never okay to stay down. Not everything is supposed to become something beautiful and long-lasting. Sometimes people come into your life to show you what is right and what is wrong, to show you who you can be to teach you to love yourself, to make you feel better for a little while or to just be someone to walk with at night and spill your life too. Not everyone is going to stay forever, and we still have to keep on going and thank them what they've given us. 

You're a teenager only for 2556 days so hit that party, have a firm handshake, keep secrets, be romantic, avoid sarcastic remarks, give people a second chance but not the third, don't regret anything, never waste an opportunity to tell someone you love them, begin each day with some of your favourite music, do what you like, tell your parents how much you love them, spend time with your family, wave at children on a school bus, don't expect life to be fair. Stop being so hard on yourself. Stop being disappointed in yourself. Stop judging yourself. You've come way too far to be doubting yourself. Remember your name is being spoken greatly in rooms you haven't stepped into yet. Keep going. Life ends when you stop dreaming. Hope ends when you stop believing. Love ends when you stop caring. So, dream, hope and love.